Saturday, June 7, 2014

G Time..................... can your spot it





 

what exactly is the g-spot?

It is the bean-shaped, spongy tissue of the paraurethral gland, which is analogous to the male prostate. The actual area is only about the size of a quarter, but it feels rougher to the touch than the surrounding tissue. Because the G-spot is composed of erectile tissue, it swells up when blood rushes to it — especially if you learn how to master the woman's G-spot effectively.

It is located about one to two inches back from the vaginal opening inside the front vaginal wall. The "front" wall is the wall of the vagina on the same side as her belly button.

the best way to find the g-spot

First of all, the G-spot is easiest to locate when a woman is sexually aroused. Start with some foreplay.

Here are some tips for finding the G-spot. Hopefully your partner is willing to try and work with you.

To locate and master the woman's G-spot, face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go. Then crook it up toward yourself in a "come hither" motion, sliding your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall. (Make sure you have your fingernails clipped short and buffed before you do this — sharp fingernails will definitely spoil the effort.) This rough or slightly ridged area is the "G-spot," and touching it will often cause a woman to react with surprise or pleasure.
If you don't get a reaction, here's what you do to really master the woman's G-spot...
If you don't get a reaction, don't be too shy to ask her if she feels especially sensitive when you touch what you think is the spot. You may need to use a fair amount of pressure to find the G-spot because it is located within, not on the outside of, the vaginal wall.

Sometimes it helps to use your other hand on the outside of the mons pubis (the hairy area above the pubic bone) to lightly massage the skin in the area where your crooked finger is touching to intensify the effect. And since not all women are G-spot sensitive, don't get discouraged if you can't get a special reaction.
While some women are capable of multiple orgasms with repetitive stimulation of the G-spot, others don't get much of a feeling and some even feel discomfort from G-spot stimulation.
No worries — every woman will appreciate the attention and the effort! And while searching, you might discover other areas in her vagina that she responds to even more enthusiastically.

tapping into love

The best way to manually stimulate the G-spot is with a firm "tapping" motion with your crooked finger. Some guys find it easier to stimulate the G-spot with various toys. Any dildo can be used for this, but the ones that are best suited for G-spot stimulation are hard and curved. Many are made specifically for G-spot stimulation, as their length, width and curve are specifically designed to take the "guesswork" out of G-spot stimulation.

Even women who do not enjoy manual stimulation of the G-spot may enjoy penile stimulation of the spot during intercourse. So, if your penis has a natural upward bend, you've got it made. Other men have to find positions that maximize penile contact with the front wall of the vagina. The "woman on top" positions and posterior (doggy style) positions are best for achieving that contact.
The only way to get G-spot stimulation in the missionary position is to prop her hips up with pillows (or with a special wedge known as "The Liberator"). Women can also intensify their ability to have G-spot orgasms by learning to contract their pelvic muscles, known as Kegel exercises.

sex gets better with age

There is some evidence that the intensity of a woman's G-spot orgasm is mediated by the hormone estrogen. Most young women under 30 find clitoral orgasms to be more powerful because, due to their relatively high estrogen levels, their vaginal lining becomes too thick to allow direct stimulation of their G-spot nerves.

As the estrogen level begins to decline in women during their 30s, the vaginal lining becomes thinner and the G-spot becomes more accessible. That's why most women feel that they begin to peak sexually in their early to mid-30s.

Speaking for myself, when my husband plays with my G-spot, the orgasm is quick (especially if my clit is also being played with) and I squirt - al lot. My g-spot orgasm(s) are amazing. But it does tend to require some planning ahead so we don't soak everything around us. Ty doesn't mind me squirting - he actually really loves it.

With the g-spot orgasm, I cannot release if something is inside me, like his finger or a toy. Once I start the orgasm, I can literally continue to have multiple, mind blowing orgasms till I can barely breathe, let alone think.

Hope you all give this a try.




 
 
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30 comments:

  1. Awesome 'G' post Blondie!! You are so clever and funny - but wow, this was a very helpful post as well. :) Cali

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    1. Thanks Cali. You are so sweet. Glad that you liked this post. I tried not to be too graphic, especially with the pictures

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  2. Oh ya brag-heart and your multiple,room -soaking orgasms! LOL. I actually read somewhere, that a doctor/scientist hypothesized that the baby's head rubs up against the g-spot right before it emerges giving the woman a little reprieve before the baby's head comes out. Pfft. I don't know. I only gave birth 3 times. None of them with drugs, and I didn't SOAK any doctor! LOL...

    Very informative post. Oh hey you know what else I read, that women's clitorises also get larger with age so that might also contribute to better sex ( well that coupled with the fact that the human nose never stops growing.....wink)
    love ya!
    willie

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    1. I had five and none of them felt as good as a g-spot orgasm, not even close. I did soak the doctor every time he broke my water though. Bragging! PFFT. The human nose never stops growling? I will have to ask Ty about that. He is pretty good with the clit (oops, tmi)

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  3. Wow... Going to find my guy right now!

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    1. Hope you found him and he found yours......

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  4. Goodness Blondie...what an informative post! Am definitely going to bookmark this...if I am lucky enough to find another HoH, will definitely share this with him...just to be sure he has all the info he needs. LOL

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. There are actually some toys out there that find the spot without and problems. Geez, do you think that Ty is always around, lol

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  5. Wow Blondie - what a tutorial. I hope lots of guys get to read this.

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    1. I don't think that I have many male readers but hopefully we can share the info and we can all be g-spot happy

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  6. Ok, sorry Willie...brag time =)
    Blondie, we have another thing in common. Once we found out I can have g-spot orgasms it LITERALLY opened the flood gates (that made ME laugh out loud!) Awesome information for your readers- great post!!
    XOXO Pearl

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    1. Way to go Pearl! (sorry Willie) Thanks for commenting and letting people know that I am not the only one soaking the sheets

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  7. Such a great (and informative) post! ;)

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    1. Thanks Adaline, it was fun to do, except for finding the pictures

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  8. I'll be bookmarking this page.

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    1. Lol Leah, I guess I should be grateful that Ty is always wanting to try something new. He is much more informed than I am

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  9. I am so printing this out and passing it along to the Hubby. ;) You know, a few days ago my sisters and I were debating on whether or not the G-spot actually existed. I know, I know. There are some in the medical and scientific world who are still debating it too. I don't think I have ever seen so much clearly understood information on this ever. Thanks for sharing this, Blondie! And yay! Now I know where you are! Bookmarked and followed!

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    1. Thanks Maren, I do love your blog and books. You are at least lucky to be able to discuss this kind of thing with your sister. I have only talked sex in blogland, so my blogland friends better be sharing their information me!

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  10. OK, OK, I have waited to visit your site (bottom of list) until now, and now I've come here I regret that I did. What a post! I know, I know, I am one of the few guys and therefore in trouble right :-) I loved the information however, knowledge should not be kept, but shared and certainly this guy knows he knows only a little bit. So a huge thank you for your open and funny (the car in the garage LOL) post.

    Truly great post, thank you Blondie!

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    1. Thank you so much. I understand about getting to the bottom of the list. That is something I am guilty of. I hope you come back and visit again. I checked out your blog and I will be back to comment. Thanks again

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    1. Do you think that the characters in your book look for the G-spot. Might be a nice reward if the two wives stop bickering. G-spot of spanking? I will take both please.

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  12. Yay-- I LOOOOVE the Gspot! Definitely what makes me squirt too. great post!

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    1. Glad to know that there are other squirters out there. Yay

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  13. Blondie,

    Great post and one some guys should read;)

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Any guy in particular that should read this? I doubt that it is your husband, you two seem to have it all. Makes me a little jealous

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  14. Wow Blondie, such a great, informative post!

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Thanks Roz. I wish that I knew all this stuff a long time ago. Oh well, with age comes knowledge

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  15. thanks for the tutorial :-) Hugs

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  16. Terps, thanks for commenting. It's amazing how much we, as women didn't really know about our G spot

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