Stress Relief Spanking

 Stress Relief Spankings: 
Stress relief spankings typically benefit the submissive.  The aim is to relieve emotional overcharge.  A hidden benefit behind a stress release spanking is prevention.  By relieving stress they spankee is not as likely to allow things to build up to a point of where he/she is misbehaving or causing disharmony in the relationship.

Some call this maintenance discipline and set one or two times per week - so the spankee knows - no matter what, there will be discipline. But I prefer to look at Stress Relief spanking as a type of spur of the moment thing - when the day just kept piling up on the one you care about and they simply don’t know which way to focus. Like a long day for your wife; the kids were a handful, her mom was a pain, and you came in the door and she just snapped at you.

This is when it is a good idea to deal with this stress. If you can, make sure that the house is clear, take the person you care about to a private room and simply tell them "I understand that things at times seem to be more than we candle, but you don't have the right to act out like that. I am here to help you, help you remember how to behave and help you remember what happens when you are so stressed you are disrespectful instead of asking for help".  What is key is that someone is in charge. Households with two submissive personalities always struggle with issues.

Then - find the implement of choice, whether it be the hand, paddle, strap or other, and firmly tell the person you care about them, that they have 10 seconds to get in position and bare bottomed, or the punishment will be much worse later. Then give enough punishment that they have to focus on the pain, and they stop focusing on the stressful stuff that was building up and finally you feel their body relax and take what they are given. Then a few more to make sure they know you mean business and then tell them you care about them, and they are forgiven and lets get this place back in harmony.
Sometimes even a little tease or sexual play - to allude to the fact that later there will be an even better way of communication and then things should be better as you have let off the steam before the pot boiled over. Know that  anything more than a bit of sexual overture might begin to work against the stress relief concept as if there is always sex after a quick spanking - you may have someone act out just for some sexual satisfaction and you don’t want that. If they really wanted to communicate in a sexual way - they should have been in a positive and sexy mood - dressed to please and then made efforts to let you know that they need you sexually - as opposed to acting out.

Enjoy each other and don’t be afraid to call someone on their attitude. If you let a few rough spots go by without calling them on it - then you are telling them it is ok to act that way and no relationship or home can survive that way of life.

This is by no means easy - and the responsibility is on the dominant to be consistent in how they handle things. Once the submissive knows you will always call them on how they act - you would be amazed how much change you find in your relationship. Then the bulk of spanking is for role-playing or foreplay!