Sometimes things happen that cannot be explained or discussed.
Ty threw me that curve ball and now I need some time to figure things out, forgive and continue on with our marriage of twenty-four years.
Damn, I don't even know what to say. I have shared so much of my personal life on this blog and everyone has been so supportive. This I cannot share. Do you know how hard it is to not be able to reach out to my blog lands friends.
This time around, I am not sharing anything but in a silent way I am asking for prayers and good thoughts. That's all I need and can handle. Ty and I will be okay.
Update:
I wanted to take the time to thank each and everyone of you for your thoughts, prayers and words of encouragement. Unfortunately this situation will not be made better overnight. This is going to take some time to heal. I am still in shock and sometimes I can't believe that any of this is real.
Thank you again and please continue to pray and send good thoughts.
Love, Blondie
I am sorry to learn you both are facing difficult issues. No need to share unless you want to. Prayers for you both that you are able to find the solutions that will work for you both.
ReplyDeleteMay the blessings of all the Buddhas and enlightened beings be with you. Blondie, Please just keep your head up
ReplyDeleteBlondie,
ReplyDeleteI am sending my prayers to you knowing that the two of you can workit out. Twenty four years says that.
Meredith
I"m here for you. :) ((((((HUGS)))))))
ReplyDeleteI am offering prayers for you both! I wish there was some way to help.
ReplyDeleteHoney, you have my love and support. If ever I can do anything, don't hesitate to email me.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry :( 24 years is a long time. You are 24 years strong. Hugs! Here If you need anything!
ReplyDeleteBut of course, I am sending you prayers and positive thoughts ... along with a few hugs. Would chocolate help? I hope that made you smile. I wish I could do more.
ReplyDeleteTake care,
Meg
Many hugs and much support.....may you weather this storm, and come out of it stronger than before....
ReplyDeletehugs abby
Of course, I'm only guessing, but this revelation will be weathered, and you will be stranger and closer than ever. I'm praying for Jesus' blessings on you both.
ReplyDeleteHey Blondie...sending lots of prayers and healing energy your way. If there is anything I can do, please let me know!
ReplyDeleteHugs and Blessings...
Cat
Oh Blondie. I will be thinking of you both and wishing you quick movement through these hard times. All the best.
ReplyDeletePrayers, love, and an open heart for you both as you work your way through this my friend.
ReplyDeleteYou have to fix it, mend it, heal it and pretend nothing happened all by yourself, huh? Are you sure that is a good idea? There are listening ears for you everywhere Blondie including my own. I thought of you this week and being so quiet, I thought about asking if you were alright. If you need help, promise you will take one of the hands streching out to you.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts are with you, girl.
Han
Hi Blondie, thinking of you, sorry that you are having such a rough time lately, wish I could help
ReplyDeletelove Jan,xx
Thinking of you and sending you positive thoughts and energy.
ReplyDeletehugs
DF
So sorry to hear you are having some hiccups along the way. Real marriage is like that. We all go down the same road even if some of us can't admit to it. No hills, no valleys.
ReplyDeleteI'm sending you lots of hugs and supportive thoughts and wish I could help more.
Hugs
Ami
Blondie, I am so sorry you are facing difficulties right now. Sending love, support, positive thoughts and prayers to you both as you work through this.
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Roz
Blondie, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteTake the time you need. Take the help you need. Blogland will be waiting for you when you are ready.
Hugs,
Mona Lisa
Sending love and support and plenty of hugs...if you need anything more please do not hesitate to ask... thinking of you...
ReplyDeleteLots of positive thoughts and good wishes xxxx
ReplyDeleteBlondie, you and Ty are in my thoughts and prayers. I'll also send you some homemade cyber-zucchini bread.
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Hermione
Many prayers are coming your way. Have faith. Listen and God will help you.
ReplyDeleteBlondie,
ReplyDeleteYou and Ty are in my thoughts, Sending support, love and hugs,
Ronnie
xx
Dear Blondie,
ReplyDeleteIt's weird, I don't know you all that well, but I had a feeling that something was up with you & I have been praying for you-I will continue to do so now & I want you to know that I understand the feeling of having to be alone in your struggle for one reason or another & it really stinks but just keep holding on to "this too shall pass..." It's what has helped me in the past & I hope it will be helpful to you as well.
Sending lots of prayers, understanding, comfort & hugs your way.
Love,
Scarlet ; )
Sending you positive thoughts and support your way! (Hugs)
ReplyDeleteThoughts and prayers are on the way. Stay strong, you'll both work through this, and come out stronger. You already know in your heart that you'll be okay.
ReplyDeleteBig Hugs!!
You may be having a tough time but from reading your blog I know you are a strong woman and will come out of this bump no matter how big, just fine. Blog land is crossing their fingers and hoping for you.
ReplyDeleteBlondie, :). I am thinking about you and hope that you know that we are here for you. You have my info if you would like to chat. You are in my prayers and thoughts. Many hugs,
ReplyDelete<3 Katie
Prayers ascending. We don't need to know the details, because I am sure God will send you what you need.
ReplyDeleteHey Blondie...catching up this morning and am praying for you two.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you and Ty. {{{hugs}}}
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