Sunday, March 23, 2014

Our Journey

Part One

We met in college. It was lust at first sight. But we knew we were meant to be together the night we met.
Ty was the kindest, most loving and caring man I had ever met. I really fell in love with Ty for all of the little things he did.
Raised by a feminist mother and a weak father, I was definitely not a submissive person. Neither of us were in charge. We dated for a couple of years. Life was good. Sex was just OK for me. I loved being with Ty, but probably because of the way that I was raised, sex that included an orgasm never happened for me. I didn't know that I was supposed to enjoy it. Even though I felt safe with Ty, when he tried to please me, I would stop him - embarrassed.



Ty: I was instantly attracted to this beautiful blonde-haired creature with the gorgeous smile. She was free spirited and fun loving and willing to take a dare. We dated for some time but it didn't take me long to know in my heart that I really wanted to be with this person forever. My head though, wanted to think this through, before I fully committed to our relationship. By knowing me better than myself, she was able to remove any doubts I might have had.






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  1. willieMarch 23, 2014 at 7:18 PM

    Oh I'm excited! I understand what you mean about letting go. But of course you already knew that. I love reading Ty's point of view too. I can't wait to read on!!
    love
    willie

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    1. BlondieMarch 25, 2014 at 1:05 PM

      Yes, I do know what you mean. Part 2 is coming soon, I just have to get Ty to turn in his part of the story. Actually, I have to bribe hi. Lol

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  2. UnknownMarch 23, 2014 at 7:25 PM

    Thanks for sharing. We met in much the same way. I'm looking forward to hearing more.

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    1. BlondieMarch 25, 2014 at 1:07 PM

      I left out the real rotten parts - lol. I would guess that a lot of people meet their future husbands/wives at college.

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  3. CatMarch 23, 2014 at 8:01 PM

    Thank you Blondie and Ty for sharing the beautiful beginning of a wonderful love story. Looking forward to reading more.

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. BlondieMarch 25, 2014 at 1:08 PM

      Thanks Cat. There will be more just have to decide how to break it up and not have so many posts that people are bored. Plus getting Ty to sat anything is like pulling teeth.

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  4. Renee RoseMarch 23, 2014 at 9:46 PM

    awww, this is so sweet!

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  5. abbyMarch 24, 2014 at 5:46 AM

    Awww..I love hearing how we met stories.....especially when they are the beginning of a love story...
    hugs abby

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    1. BlondieMarch 25, 2014 at 1:10 PM

      Thanks. I will have to admit that our story is my very favorite love story. <3

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  6. JennelleMarch 24, 2014 at 5:48 AM

    Can't wait to hear more!!

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    1. BlondieMarch 25, 2014 at 1:11 PM

      Thanks and stay tuned, just waiting on Ty to put in his two cents

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  7. Aimless RamblingMarch 24, 2014 at 6:01 AM

    Oh, how lovely to read how you met. Thanks Ty for weighing in too.

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    1. BlondieMarch 25, 2014 at 1:12 PM

      Ty is keeping me honest and making sure I don't share too much - so there won't be a lot of talk about my certain identifiable things

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  8. TerpsichoreMarch 24, 2014 at 6:29 AM

    this is so sweet...I am looking forward to reading the continuing story of your beginnings together. thanks for sharing :-) Hugs

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    1. BlondieMarch 25, 2014 at 1:13 PM

      Thanks Terps. I am kind of doing this for me, a chronological story about how Ty and I got to this point of our lives and lifestyle.

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  9. AnonymousMarch 24, 2014 at 7:51 AM

    I like these kinds of stories. :)

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    1. BlondieMarch 25, 2014 at 1:14 PM

      It's good therapy and if is neat to share memories with Ty and to see how we each remember a certain event.

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  10. ronnieMarch 24, 2014 at 8:58 AM

    Lovely to read how you met. Thank you both.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. BlondieMarch 25, 2014 at 1:15 PM

      Thanks Ronnie, it is fun to remember that time, it was so long ago. We have been married just over half of my life.

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  11. TessMarch 24, 2014 at 9:10 AM

    Awww. I love 'how we met' stories:) Can't wait to hear the rest!

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    1. BlondieMarch 25, 2014 at 1:16 PM

      Sometimes the beginning seems the most wonderful and simplest of times. It is nice to remember those days

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  12. AnonymousMarch 24, 2014 at 11:53 AM

    I'm looking forward to reading more of your story :)

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    1. BlondieMarch 25, 2014 at 1:17 PM

      Thanks. There should be a lot more but I am trying to condense. I won't share every childbirth with you all - that might take a couple of posts. Lol

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  13. RozMarch 25, 2014 at 12:52 AM

    Thank you both for sharing your story. I love reading how we met stories and this was such a lovely reflection from both of you on the beginning of your relationship. Looking forward to reading more :)

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. BlondieMarch 25, 2014 at 1:18 PM

      Thanks Roz. Ty has agreed (or has been bribed) to do this with me. I am enjoying writing about our past and present and it makes me look forward to the future

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  14. an English RoseMarch 25, 2014 at 2:26 AM

    Oh, nice, looking forward to some more
    love Jan.xx

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    1. BlondieMarch 25, 2014 at 1:19 PM

      Thanks Jan and I will hopefully be getting the next part out soon.

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  15. JuliaMarch 25, 2014 at 8:45 PM

    That is a very nice start, looking forward to reading more.
    The first few years of our marriage were spend trying to get me to cum, which of course resulted in that really not happening till at least five years later....

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    1. BlondieMarch 29, 2014 at 2:30 PM

      Sounds like that big O is more evasive than we ever realized. I will have more to our journey, just need Ty to finish his part.

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  16. Celeste JonesMarch 26, 2014 at 9:52 AM

    So sweet. Can't wait for The Rest Of The Story.

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  17. AnonymousMarch 26, 2014 at 5:17 PM

    Awww - I totally love reading how couples began. This was really awesome. Thanks for sharing your beginning. :)

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    1. BlondieMarch 29, 2014 at 2:32 PM

      Thanks Cali - Love stories are always beautiful, especially your own.

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  18. ConinaMarch 27, 2014 at 2:18 PM

    Love.

    I want to hear about how you bribed Ty to do this with you. :D (I have a hard time bribing my husband to do anything for my blog)

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    1. BlondieMarch 29, 2014 at 2:33 PM

      Well, how I bribed him would probably make me an honorary member of a certain worshipping club. Lol

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  19. AnonymousMarch 28, 2014 at 3:00 PM

    Tell us more, Blondie!
    Meredith

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    1. BlondieMarch 29, 2014 at 2:34 PM

      I will keep pushing and nagging the man so we can get to the fun parts of our relationship.

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