answering the questons

Some Very Interesting Questions. I will do my best to answer all of them.

Ant Js 

Nudist colonies? Explain more detail please ...
Will you give me 10 random things about you that no one knows :)

 me-

Yes, a nudist resort. Two years ago I decided to surprise my husband and visit the resort for our wedding anniversary. He had always wanted to go. The first time was a bit of an eye opener but it was kind of fun and Ty soooo appreciated it. And I have gone back with his 4 or 5 times. Nobody there cares about how you look.

1. We have nine snakes, one dog and a cat.

2. I have too many apps on my cell phone so my battery is always losing it's juice

3. I usually squirt when I orgasm

4. In the winter, I highlight my hair so my roots and all dark and it looks like I color my hair

5. I am very competitive.

6. I am really starting to sound and act like my mother

7. I like pain when we have erotic sex

8. Ty has had a hard time spanking me for punishment, being raised to not him women.

9. I don't like crowds and I easily get overstimulated.

10.We sleep in a king size bed

 

Cali Mom
What was it about Ty that made you know that he was 'the one'? And what is it about him now that you most appreciate and adore?

Most important, he believed in me and never doubted me.  A lot of stuff was going on in my life and Ty just jumped right in. I was also helping run a campaign on a certain issue. Ty says to me that he has no idea what the issue was but he believed in me. Plus he was open minded and had a cute butt.

It's all the little things. I love what a good father he is, I love that he is really making the changes in our marriage be successful and I adore him because he adores me.

 

PK

I'm asking several friends this question - Would you two ever consider attending a spanking party that people host at different locations around the country? Since you did try the nudist colony I wondered.

Funny you should ask that question.....  We and our business were invited to join/take part in a Three Day Event Spanking Party in Texas. We can sell our paddles there and being a vendor is free if we attend the event. Should I say that Ty is interested, okay really interested in attending. I am sure that I will be sharing more about this if we decide to go. We may need someone to watch our kids while we are doing the spanking thing - any offers.

Es May
Are there any paddles that you make that you wouldn't let Ty use on you? Or that he won't use on you? You have been at DD for a while now, do you find there is still something you struggle over that you did in the beginning? A rule? A way of submission? Consistency?
Nope. All of the paddles that Blondie's make are ones that Ty would use on me. And me, there are a few that I really don't like but probably for reasons that most wouldn't understand. I hate the smacky ones. But if he uses any paddle, with the knowledge of how heavy it is, they are all good. I just texted Ty about your second question and he texted back "get to work". He can be so bossy, so I guess I would say that I have and probably always will have a difficult time with his telling me what to do. He also just texted me and said that I am a brat and I need to listen to him better. How rude, lol

Leigh Smith aka Sunny Girl
 Okay, stealing from someone, who would you consider playing Ty and you if anyone made a movie of your life? What would it be called?
Good question not matter if it was borrowed. Matt Dillon would definitely have to play Ty. They just look way too much alike. They could be brothers, he had even been mistaken as Matt.  I would call our movie Rollercoaster, that would totally describe our life together.

Ami Starsong
Okay, Blondie, I have a question about paddles, simply because we are probably the only ones around here who don't have a wooden one. Ha! It seems to me that these wooden paddles look 'very long'. How can you spank just one buttock with such a long implement, or are they intended to always hit both cheeks at the same time? It mystifies me.
You ask a great question. We have a lot of paddles that are small enough for just one cheek. We usually label them as made specifically for OTK.  We also have paddles that are really long, long enough to easily cover both cheeks - especially true for women who have the big butt size that I have. Then there are the normal size paddles. Depending on how you are being spanked, they can be used to cover both cheeks are just one. When they cover both cheeks, your husband just needs to be aware of how the paddle on the end of it, is hitting the cheek. He needs to make sure that the end does not carry all the weight. Hope that helps.

Katie
LOL Blondie- I liked your "I have a spanking appointment graphic" that would work around here. Rob is constantly saying, "That's three". Spank by number it seems. LOL!
No need for Ami to worry. We don't own anything like that either. Beyond the fact that you and Ty sell these very popular products, why do you think that we should invest in one. What will it bring to the table (or should I say the bottom)? And more personally- Is there something that you and Ty are working on that just seems to be hard for you to come around to? What do you like to do for fun? Not DD related. That's it from me. Many hugs
We have a regular Tuesday night spanking appointment, lol. I am not sure what implements you already have or use, so I will be a little vague here. Ty says his hand starts to hurt after awhile. Okay, he says that a paddle means serious discipline. It is a big attitude adjustor. It's not something that people who spank for fun use, they are primarily used for DD. It's more serious than a hand or a wooden spoon. I hope that that makes sense.
For fun, Ty says that I am his favorite porn star and that is what he likes to do together. He is of no help here. Most of our time is spent as family time. With five kids, we are always trying to keep track of schedules and trying to be there for them. In our free time, we don't always hang out together. He likes to do woodworking and watch movies. I read while he watches movies but we are in the same room. We do love to go camping and exploring, usually we are with kids but not always.

Terpsichore
What is your favorite color? How is the meal planning going? Hope all is well...hugs!
PINK!!!! I love the color pink, it rocks!  Meal planning, ugh.... but it is going a little better. Three ou
t of four nights this week I had a meal planned. I asked the kids what they would like for dinner (that I could make - not buy) and I made those meals. Last night, we had pizza. It was one of those days that I was constantly running and I was never home for long.

Cat
LOL Blondie...Nudist Colonies? Really? Okay, I'll bite...explain please! BTW...love the graphics.
Back in May, 2012 - well I surprised Ty and made reservations at a nudist resort for our anniversary. Ty has always, always wanted to go and I really didn't. So going there was a real surprise for him and he was so pleased. It wasn't bad, much better than I expected. And I have returned with him about five more times. People are friendly, everyone is relaxed and you just get used to all the nudity. This resort is a family resort so there is no hanky panks going on and everything is clean and the property is beautiful. Still not my favorite thing to do but Ty loves it.

Ronnie
What would be your dream house and where? What was the first thing you noticed about Ty?
Can I have two? I want a nice big, cozy cabin right on the ocean in Northern California area. I love the foggy mist in the morning and some sunshine during the day that we can enjoy the beach and the water. And my other home would be somewhere that we can have a big house with lots of rooms (for when the kids and grandchildren visit). I want it to be a ranch where we have some horses and chickens. There has to be a river or lake nearby that is on our property. And lots of acreage for privacy.     The first thing I noticed about Ty was his butt. I was walking off the dance floor and he happened to be in front of me. Then he turned around and asked me to dance. The rest is history as we shut the bar down and two and a half years later we married.

Wilma Rubble
Okay...I'll play, ( but maybe not nicely *wink*) Is there anything that you have tried with your Dd dynamic that was an 'utter train wreck" and you scrapped it? If so do you think now that you have grown as a couple you may try it again?
Don't like that one? Okay.....How long into this lifestyle were you before you actually 'felt' like it fit? That is, it was a natural way of life and you didn't have to fight for it anymore? ( both of you if you can both answer)
You always play nicely.... In the beginning, we tried to make up a contract with rules. We restarted three times and almost gave up. We realized that we really didn't need a lot of rules. Ty doesn't really like to punish me. We basically follow the four D's - Disobedience, Dishonesty, Disrespect and Dangerous. Those D's pretty much covers the rules that we need.  So we have never returned back to making out a list of rules. It is still not completely a natural way of life. Old habits are hard to break. Our marriage has gone through a lot of ups and downs and we work really hard to fix things when there is a breakdown because the benefits to our marriage are so great.


Thanks for all of the great questions.

                                                                                                                   Ty and Blondie


Please keep answering questions, this is really fun.