Wednesday, April 4, 2012

OMG What A Spanking

Just a fair warning, this is much more explicit then my normal...

I am very good at following the rules and doing what I am supposed to do. My husband has become very consistent. So he spanks when I mess  up or need an adjustment. But the time between these spankings were growing farther apart. My husband started maintenance spankings. He feels that this helps to lower my stress, to remind us of our roles and to put us back in the dd mode of thinking. I agreed to this, he is the HoH and as long as he didn't take me on a van ride for maintenance, I would not argue with him about it. So now, every time the house is empty, whether it is for twenty minutes or for hours, out come the paddles.  And I have had three maintenance spankings in the last five days. My husband is a spanko.

The other day, things had been real stressful. I was not in a good place. B sent me back to the bedroom to write down all the things that I was stressed about, what things I hadn't done that I was supposed to and of course what kind of attitude I was giving him. And I was to be naked when he comes to the bedroom.
He came back and laid me over his lap. While he was giving me a warmup, he had me read what I had written out loud. Then he had me lay over the bed. That man spanked me like I have never been spanked before. it had been too long since I have had a spanking, he didn't appreciate my attitude or me ignoring my jobs. And he didn't appreciate the fact that I was stressing and yet not sharing with him my concerns.
Ohhhh, my butt hurt. He used at least four different implements. Yet he didn't use him new lexan paddle (his favorite). I was relieved.
Then he made me sit on the new welcome mat - yes I made the mistake of telling him about it. That mat kills the bottom, makes the pain twice as bad. While I was sitting in pain, he gave me my list. He told me to tear it into tiny little pieces. In the mean time, he got out the toys and restraints. I finished tearing and started begging him to let me get off of the mat. OMG
Finally he had me lay face down on the bed with pillows lifting my bottom. He resrained me hands and my feet to the bed posts. Then he put a blindfold on me. I had seen some of the toys, so I started guessing what he was going to do. Boy what was I thinking?

 
He pulled out the lexan paddle. I couldn't believe it. My bottom hurt so much already. He used that paddle on my bottom. He pushed me farther than he ever has. I finally went limp, exhausted.
The man was not done with me yet. The rest of the evening, I can't really share because it has to do with S.E.X . I am not suppose to talk about our sex life on my blog or really to anyone, anywhere. Suffice it to say, I think that I passed out cause I don't remember much of the rest of the evening. Good think he was willing to pick kids up and get them to bed. I couldn't move...

23 comments:

  1. Wow...sounds quite hot:)!!!

    Love,
    Kitty

    P.S. I love nights like that.

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    1. Thanks Kitty. It was hard to actually write down all of this and then to post it made me very nervous. Your positive comment made me feel good

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  2. Well...that was quite an evening! I'm guessing that you woke up the next morning feeling very centered and not stressed at all.

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    1. Susie, The next morning I was feeling like I was still glowing. Great evening

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  3. That was quite a post!! Thanks for sharing. Have a nice Easter weekend. Blessings to you and you family.

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    1. Thank you. Hope you have a nice Easter too. Thanks for the blessing and the same to you and your family too.

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  4. Wow, what a way to spend a night!

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  5. Whew! I hope you're back in your 'good' place. :)

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    1. Rogue, that I was in a good place. Maybe skipping the maintenance might have been nice....... naw, it was all good.

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  6. WOW! Glad I came back to reading blogs :) I love a little gem like this. Hope all else is well and you all have a wonderful Holiday over the weekend!

    -Emi

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  7. What a very responsible HOH making sure that all in his care is thoroughly and completely taken care of. :)

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  8. Wow, sounds like it was pretty intense! Note to self: don't buy any ouchy welcome mats and if given any as a gift, do not fill Michael in on possible alternative uses!

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  9. I'm a "DD wife" and although i fully with the lifestyle I'm shocked. Restraining you, spanking until you are limp? Having a "spanko husband" or not, that just seems so far on the BDSM side that I'm shocked you can even call yourself part of a domestic discipline marriage.

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  10. Blondie-- wow wow wow
    Are you all better now?? Sounds like just what you needed.
    Anon- are you the keeper of labels or what?
    Every marriage is different be shocked all you want but it is not up to you how others chose to define thenselves. Lots of us use all kinds of elements in our marriages one method is not mutually exclusive to the other. To each their own, live and let live.
    Oh wait one more observation it's very easy to pass judgement when one isn't willing to sign their name.

    Laurie

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  11. Laurie,

    I'm fine leaving my name. But like your comment, it was only letting me post under "anonymous". My name is Erica. I understand lots of marriages do DD differently-mine included. Doesnt mean that restraining your wife and spanking until she goes limp is ok. Im rather shocked by your "sounds like just what you needed" statement. Thats pretty sick to say that to anyone. How sad to say someone NEEDS to me spanked until they are limp.

    ERICA

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    1. Erica, first I am glad that you stated your opinion. If I was being abused, I would hope that other people would say something. A lot of the people who comment or follow my blog, I have had the pleasure to get to know in some way. If a line was crossed, they would let me know for sure. If he spanked me out of anger or as a punishment, he would never spank to that point. Our spankings for sex are a great turn on or fore play. There is two different worlds and sometimes there is a fine line drawn but there is a line.
      Thanks for commenting

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  12. Erica,

    My point is this is consensual, and they know their levels and what it my take for the release. it's not for the rest of us judge, just support because this clearly was a positive experience for this couple. I'm not sure it would be my choice but there is no DD police with a DD checklist, so was just surprised at how self righteous your comment seemed. You certainly have the right to your opinion but really why all the judgement. Different strokes for different folks. Sometimes the lines get blurry and that's ok. Not every act fits into a near t little category as long as it's consensual. (which I know is the case in this case, if I thought for a nan-second this wasn't consensual I would never have made that comment)

    Laurie
    That's all

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    1. Laurie, thanks for being my friend and defending me. I believe that my husband would be in big trouble if you thought he was hurting me. I know that you would not tolerate that for a second. It is great to have support like you and others.

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  13. Thanks for all your comments. One thing that I want to explain is that for many years, my husband and I were including light bondage, dominance and spankings. It has been an still is fun. Spankings are something that my body responds to sexually. I don't know why and at this point in my life, I really don't care.
    I acually found out about dd through looking at spanking sites. I have actually had a difficult time with dd because I am not a natural submissive wife (o person). Role playing is one thing but in normal every day life, it is a little harder.
    One very clear point to make is this: BONDAGE IS PART OF OUR DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE - SEXUALLY ONLY. If I need a consequence for unacceptable behavior, my husband will spank without any type of bondage, it is not about fun at all. And I have come a long way in learning to be my husband's wife, partner and lover. When I follow him, we have fewer issues and we get along so much better. Our relationship is healthier then ever before. I don't like getting into trouble and it is a big incentive to do the right thing knowing that one, I will get spanked and two, life is much better when we work together and he gets the final say. I don't care for the word submissive in our daily life but I guess that is the best word describe myself.
    This post is not about a punishment spanking. I did nothing wrong. The first part of the spanking was maintenance but the bondage part was for sex and sex only. The time that I was sitting on the mat was when we when from one place to the other.
    I appreciate your comments and any concerns that you may have. Believe me, I am not going to allow my husband to hurt me, humiliate me, abuse me or o anything dangerous. He has a hard time spanking me for discipline, it is not easy for him. He is a good, very good.

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