Ran across this article, I do not know where the original came from. Ty and I learned something from this and we hope that you may find it beneficial too.
Too high and too low I always complain about. My tailbone was broken during my first pregnancy (delivering the baby) and I am terrified that he might hit it and break it.
I'm always saying the same thing to Rog, too high! But then he always goes lower to the sit spot. Maybe I should just paint my butt like the diagram for him! Lol Kim
Paint the butt, what a great idea. Ty has realized that the sweet spot and thighs hurts like the dickens so too high goes too low just like you. Darn them! Butt painting sounds fun though...
Hugs to you Cat. I hope that others will like it as much as Ty and myself. We are constantly learning about our relationship and how spankings are part of it.
Hi Blondie, I hate hate hate it on my thighs, so I am not telling about that bit! He always spanks it there when I don;t keep still. And I never keep still :(( love Jan.xx
Wow, I feel like the Duke is the odd man out, lol. He's never too high, but aims right for the sit spot, so, I'm showing this one to get him to aim higher while everyone else will get their men to aim lower. LOL ;)
Thanks for this Blondie - I am always getting it too high and it has caused more than one "spanking argument" in our household. I shall be showing this to Dan pretty soon.
That is an issue with most of us. It freaks me out when Ty hits high. I will try to get off his lap and yell at him because it scares me. Not a good idea, wouldn't recommend that.
Love this! He sometimes hits high which I complain about but often he puts his hand on my back right on my tailbone so he can be extra careful. Always makes me feel happy when he does that.
Thanks for posting this. I've been having some chronic pain to the point that spanking is off the table right now. I will print this though. I think it will be great for when we're ready to resume!
I am so sorry about your pain. I hope that you will figure out why and how to mend it soon. Don't ask me, but there are some silent punishments around. I can't say though. Not giving anything away here. Take care
LOL Blondie! :) I did show this to Rob. I too am always saying, "Too high, Honey! Too high!" Ever since reading this he seems to have new determination. He kind of lines his hand or implement up and says stuff like, "Let me get that sit spot. Now wait a minute- I need to go here." He then proceeds to spank like only he can. LOL! Thanks for sharing. Many hugs,
Katie, show him the diagram again and show him that he is only to spank that sit spot about 20% of the time. Well, maybe you shouldn't.... If I did that, Ty would not and I mean not be happy. My sit spot would never be the same. Ty is still too high but I am not going to give him any advice. When I am OTK, I try to say as little as possible and not give advice. Lol <3
Very educational post. Thanks. I'm always telling Ray too high, too high. He asked if I wanted to print a copy for him.
ReplyDeleteToo high and too low I always complain about. My tailbone was broken during my first pregnancy (delivering the baby) and I am terrified that he might hit it and break it.
DeleteI'm always saying the same thing to Rog, too high! But then he always goes lower to the sit spot. Maybe I should just paint my butt like the diagram for him! Lol
ReplyDeleteKim
Paint the butt, what a great idea. Ty has realized that the sweet spot and thighs hurts like the dickens so too high goes too low just like you. Darn them! Butt painting sounds fun though...
DeleteThis is great! I think I will show it to my guy!
ReplyDeleteThanks Minelle. I know Ty liked the picture with the details. It was like reading a map (lol)
DeleteThanks for sharing this Blondie. I am always saying the same thing to Rick too. LoL Kim
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Roz
So now you, Kim and I can all paint our butts. Gotta help those men anyway we can/
DeleteI've screeched a 'too high' now and again, will show this to P :-)
ReplyDeleteToo high! Too low! Too hard! Enough! I yell those things all the time. Lol
DeleteAwesome public service Blondie! Think every couple should print this out!
ReplyDeleteHugs and Blessings...
Cat
Hugs to you Cat. I hope that others will like it as much as Ty and myself. We are constantly learning about our relationship and how spankings are part of it.
DeleteVery helpful! Thanks! I will be sure to pass this on ;)
ReplyDeleteBe careful, make sure you fix where it says where the sit spots are. Change it to show that they shouldn't spank there or the thighs. Lol
DeleteHi Blondie, I hate hate hate it on my thighs, so I am not telling about that bit! He always spanks it there when I don;t keep still. And I never keep still :((
ReplyDeletelove Jan.xx
Isn't that the worse. How does one keep still or quiet, I have no idea. Usually I get the thigh hit when I try to dodge or blog the spank.
DeleteWow, I feel like the Duke is the odd man out, lol. He's never too high, but aims right for the sit spot, so, I'm showing this one to get him to aim higher while everyone else will get their men to aim lower. LOL ;)
ReplyDelete{{{hugs}}} EsMay
Aim right there in the middle is good for me. Sit spots hurt the most the next day.
DeleteThanks for this Blondie - I am always getting it too high and it has caused more than one "spanking argument" in our household. I shall be showing this to Dan pretty soon.
ReplyDeleteHugs
Ami
That is an issue with most of us. It freaks me out when Ty hits high. I will try to get off his lap and yell at him because it scares me. Not a good idea, wouldn't recommend that.
DeleteThanks Blondie. My hubby tends to go too high too.
ReplyDeleteWhat is it with our men. I have such a big target for Ty to spank, why does he need to higher or lower. My bottom isn't very hard to miss. Lol
DeleteLove this! He sometimes hits high which I complain about but often he puts his hand on my back right on my tailbone so he can be extra careful. Always makes me feel happy when he does that.
ReplyDeleteTy does that too sometimes. It does make me feel better
DeleteThanks for posting this. I've been having some chronic pain to the point that spanking is off the table right now. I will print this though. I think it will be great for when we're ready to resume!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry about your pain. I hope that you will figure out why and how to mend it soon. Don't ask me, but there are some silent punishments around. I can't say though. Not giving anything away here. Take care
ReplyDeleteLOL Blondie! :) I did show this to Rob. I too am always saying, "Too high, Honey! Too high!" Ever since reading this he seems to have new determination. He kind of lines his hand or implement up and says stuff like, "Let me get that sit spot. Now wait a minute- I need to go here." He then proceeds to spank like only he can. LOL! Thanks for sharing. Many hugs,
ReplyDelete<3 Katie
Katie, show him the diagram again and show him that he is only to spank that sit spot about 20% of the time. Well, maybe you shouldn't.... If I did that, Ty would not and I mean not be happy. My sit spot would never be the same. Ty is still too high but I am not going to give him any advice. When I am OTK, I try to say as little as possible and not give advice. Lol
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