Tuesday, December 10, 2013

SEX, SPANKINGS, HEARTBREAK AND LAUGHTER



Two Years? Two years of what? December 10th is the anniversary date of this blog. For two years, I have been sharing the good, the bad, the ugly and the silly on my Blondies Blog. For this post, I have gone back through the years and found the posts that had the most views or the most comments. It was kind of fun. Interesting that the sad and difficult posts usually had the most comments. But the ones that were pretty blatantly about sex or spankings, well they had the most views. As my friend Christina told me once, use the word sex in your title because sex sells. Thanks for being a reader, a commenter and/or a friend. This journey has been the most interesting time of my life. In the past two years, my relationship with Ty has changed from okay to great. I have learned a lot about myself. I have laughed and cried - especially re-reading some of my posts. I have also learned not to judge, not to pick sides and to not take things personally. My blog, my post, my words and my feelings!


OMG, What A Spanking
"That man spanked like I have never been spanked before"



My New Friends  

"It seems odd that I can become friends with people I have never me in person. That we only chat with each online."

Am I Submissive?
"So when did you first realize that I was submissive"?
"I didn't"  "You are a brat, even when I spank you, you are stubborn"



 BDSM Symbol
"The three divisions represent the various threesomes of BDSM"


Sometimes You Have to Pretend That Everything is Okay
"Depression is Humiliating.  It turns intelligent, kind people into zombies who cannot wash a dish or change their socks."


L8L Lurkers Day
"I hope that you have enjoyed reading my blog and I hope that you
will leave me comment and let me know you were lurking"



A Spanking Good Name for My Husband Contest
"So help me name my husband" "I am getting tired of always
calling him my husband"



DD/TTWD - FRIENDS OR FAKES
"I thought that I had a wonderful friend" Though my heart has been hurt and I have a lot of unanswered questions, I am okay"




50 comments:

  1. Happy Blogiversary - glad that you are here with us.

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    1. Thank you. I have really enjoyed getting to know you

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  2. Happy Blogiversary, It's been great getting to "know" you.

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    1. Thank you. And ditto, great getting to know you too.

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  3. Happy Blogiversary Blondie, may you have many more.
    love Jan,xx

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    1. Thank you Jan. I hope to be around for awhile. I have enjoyed reading your blog

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  4. Congrats on your Blogiversary, Blondie. I've followed your blog (starting as a lurker) for over a year and always enjoy your posts. Keep on Blogging!

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    1. Well I have to say, you are one of my favorite lurkers, especially now that you have entered the blogging world. It will be fun to be part of your journey. Thank you

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  5. Congrats on your 2 year blogiversary! I love reading your posts :)
    Kim

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    1. Thank you so much. I love blogging and getting to know great people like you

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  6. I love that you're here. I understand most closely the idea of going from okay to great with your husband. That's what happened for us too. Strange, but deep down I trust the people I 'know' out here more than many I see daily. It says something to the power of words. Blogging is beneficial in many ways.

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    1. PK, I have really enjoyed getting to know you through blogging. I am glad that I have been honored to be your friend. And I appreciate your support during my journey

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  7. Congratulations Blondie!
    It's amazing how much we can all learn from one another here - but also amazing how much we learn about ourselves. I'm so glad that you are here and that you see the value of being here, not to mention what it's done for your marriage!
    hugs,
    Cali

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    1. Cali, thank you for your kind words. I have really enjoyed blogging and getting to know all my blog friends. Glad you are around too

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  8. Congratulations, Blondie
    Hooray for your paddles, too
    Meredith

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    1. Thank you so much. It is people like you that have encouraged me to keep blogging.

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  9. Happy Blogiversary Blondie! So very happy you are here and hope you continue for many more years!

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Cat, reading your blog has given me more laughter than any other blog. But all your support behind the scenes has really been appreciated. Thank you

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  10. Happy Blogiversay...you are a cherished addition to our community.
    hugs abby

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    1. Abby, thank you so much, that is so sweet of you to say. I am glad that you are blogging too. It has really been the making of friends and sharing our lives that has made blogging so enjoyable. Thanks for sharing your journey

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  11. Congratulations on your blogiversary! Hope you have many, many more posts! Clara

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    1. Thank you, thank you! I hope to keep blogging for as long as I can.

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  12. Well my friend, I am most grateful for your blog as it has brought you...( okay that is enough sap)

    May you continue to find joy and benefit in blogging for a very long time!
    love
    willie

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    1. Willie, seriously, when have you ever been sappy when you are talking to me? You are just fun to be friends with. Even if my best advice has been to not leave your son at the zoo. Lol Seriously, thanks for your support

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  13. Congratulations Blondie! I'm a late arrival to your blog, so glad I'm here now.

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    1. Well I am really glad you are here. Finding and reading your blog has been a blast! Thanks

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  14. Happy Blogiversary, Blondie! Two years already! Well I hope you go on for many years more!

    Hugs
    Ami

    PS And it's just great having a "paddle" expert around here!

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    1. Thanks Ami! It seems like you have been around here for as long as I can remember, so I really appreciate you reading my blog. And my paddle store has actually taught me a lot about paddles and what is what about them

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  15. Congratulations on two years! Happy to have found you! :-) Hugs!

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    1. Terps, thank you. I have just enjoyed your friendship, kind words and advice throughout my time hear in blogland

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  16. Blondie and Ty, Congratulations on two years! You know, I think it's good that your harder posts have more comments. That's when people who are usually busy, and don't have time to comment every time, stop in the middle of all they are doing to show you how much you mean to them, that you are worthy of them setting everything aside so that they can comfort you and make you realize how loved and important you are. {{{hugs}}} :)

    {{{hugs}}} EsMay

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    1. EsMay, as strange as it was how we met each other, I have so appreciated your kind words and support. And I have really enjoyed you sharing your journey with us on your blog. Thanks

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  17. Happy anniversary my friend! I'm so glad you started this blog, and congrats on your TWO years! Wow!

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    1. You are actually one of two bloggers that convinced me to have a blog. The first time I tried, I wote one post and then I quit. But your comment telling me how much you liked what I has said and wishing me luck with my blog, so encouraged me that I started blogging again. Thank you. You have been one of my favorite bloggers around. I laugh at your stories and shake my head for poor Ogre - well not always but you know my feelings about that. Lol Thanks again.

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  18. I remember many of those posts! I am thankful for you. :)

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    1. Thank you! I think that I have learned a lot about dd/ttwd/and what other acronym we choose to use, reading your blog and getting a chance to chat with you some on through different ways. I appreciate you not only reading but for commenting. Thanks

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  19. Thank you for being so welcoming, and congrats on 2 years, that's really amazing!! I know a lot of blogs come and go for whatever reason, so it's nice to see and follow a couple that's having success and still writing :) Thank you

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    1. Thanks Jennelle. Blogging with my blogland friends' support has been an incredible journey. Everything is clearer and getting fresh ideas has really been a benefit. Thank you

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  20. What a wonderful Two Years of Sharing ! Blondie you are Beautiful Loving Complex Woman who we all enjoy reading about you and your life with your Amazing Husband!

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    1. I am secretly envious of your name. And I love your blog. Thank you for being a blog friend.

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  21. Happy Happy Happy blog anniversary! So glad you are here!

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    1. Zoe, my friend, you have always been there for me. I know that if I ever have a concern, I can email you and get a little understanding. Thanks for reading my blog too

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  22. Wow, two years, that's substantial!!! Happy Blogiversary to you. It was fun reading your top posts, I remember many of those. I'm so happy to have found your blog and your friendship, Blondie. Here's to you and Ty -- another happy two years and more!

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    1. Thanks Riley. The best thing about blogging is making friends like you.

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  23. Happy blogaversary, Blondie!

    Hugs,
    Hermione

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    1. Thanks Hermione. You and your blog have been very helpful to me in so many ways. I learn from you, laugh with others at your posts and really enjoy the community that you have helped to develop.

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  24. Happy Blogiversary Blondie! I'm so glad youre part of this community, and I can't wait to read years more of posts from you. ;)

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  25. I see I'm late to the party, but want to join the rest in wishing you a Happy Blogiversary, Blondie. I'm a newbie, having just started my blog last month, so it's still taking me a while to get around blogland. I'm glad I found you. I look forward to reading more and getting to know you!

    Hugs,
    Sadie

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