Monday, May 21, 2012

Naked Anniversary

It was a great weekend. I wish we could have stayed longer but life doesn't allow for too much lazy, free time.

So the clothing optional resort was not at all quite what I thought it would be like.
It took me awhile to not stare at the ground but once I looked up, you tend to look at someone in the face when talking to them.
I have really never seen many males naked. That was kind of a novelty that I tried to pay much little attention to.
It was so much fun. Never once did I worry about how I looked. Well except the color of my skin - as in too red and needing more sunscreen.
And the people were so nice there.
The resort was absolutely beautiful. Everything was clean and open.
They consider the place a family environment and so it was really vanilla except that everyone was nude.
There were tennis courts, bike trails, paddle boats and kayaks, exercise room, ping pong and pool tables, beautiful lake and four pools.
There were people who lived there full time and some part time.

Most of the people had been in the nude scene for awhile. But they welcomed us "first timers" with lots of encouragement and laughs.
At 45 and 48, we were pretty much the youngest people there. It was mostly people who had grown children and grandkids.
If you enjoy being undressed at home or in private, then I would say you would like it here. There is no reason to hide being nude. No one is looking at you in a sexual way.
Anyone acting in a way that would cause someone else to be uncomfortable, will be asked to leave, immediately
There was a lot of alcohol all being consumed especially at night. There are dances every weekend and the dance was pretty wild. But the next morning all those people were back at the pools or walking around the lake.
Supposedly, there is a swingers group there. We didn't see anything. My husband was propositioned when he was out walking past the dance. The woman offered to teach him how to do more than dance. And her husband kind of shrugged his shoulders like he didn't care. My husband didn't go anywhere alone after that.
We were talking to this one man in the pool and he must have liked something I said and he said to me "I would hug you if we were naked". My husband said "I wouldn't let you hug her even if you were dressed" and the man laughed.
I was more comfortable sometimes wearing a sarong around my waist but I  also did the whole naked thing.
My husband could not believe that we were actually there. He wanted to know if we would ever return. I told him yes and he is soooooooooo happy.



 Good news: Our children were great! They all behaved, no problems, no phone calls, no police, nothing. They even picked up the house before we got home.  At 18, 16, 15, 12 and 10 they were responsible beyond our expectations. I think that we may be planning another short getaway soon.




Okay, I guess I should stop with the vanilla talk about being at a nudist resort. It was fun. It was interesting and all. But oh boy it was fun.
We had to bring our toys and paddles and stuff with us because we were worried that our curious kids may snoop. So we felt that is was much safer to bring them.

We were already naked the entire time. Nature, sunshine and nudity are major aphrodisiacs for my husband. We did enjoy the grounds but the bed got the most use.

He liked to tie me up and use his toys on me. His cock was in my mouth more often than not. Multiple orgasms galore. The paddles were used only for fun, but not much. He really didn't want me to walk around with marks on my butt.

So if you enjoy being naked around your own house. You love being in nature and you have no rules about wearing any clothes, you need to go to a clothing optional place. You cannot have sex outside  but the you could sure enjoy what the fresh air provides.

Laying in a pool naked. Eating dinner without a stitch of clothing. We weren't brave enough to play volleyball or tennis. Every time we were outdoors for a walk or a swim, we always ended up back in the room.

This is definitely going to be an anniversary we will never forget.



23 comments:

  1. I'll try this again. Have a heckuva time posting a comment on your blog.

    Glad you had a great time. It is very refreshing and after the first few minutes you don't realize everyone including you are naked.
    Funniest thing I remember from the first time is seeing women wearing just bras when playing tennis.
    Happy Anniversary

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    1. The funny thing we noticed were couples where the woman had a sarong around her waist and the man had on a t-shirt, letting everything else hang out. Women tend to cover up around their waist and not worry about their breasts. Greatest thing was seeing a woman who had had breast cancer and had only one breast. Nobody cared.
      22 years and the most memorable anniversary so far

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    2. I saw that too the very first time. I remember thinking how brave and after that, didn't give it a second thought. I think nudity puts us all in the same boat and somehow makes us less judgemental.

      So glad you had such a good time.

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  2. Wow! You are certainly more adventurous than I am. I'm so glad that you had such a good time and that the kids were responsible while you were away. I'm quite sure you'll remember this anniversary for a long time! lol

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    1. Grace, in my younger days I usually never turned down a dare and was always willing to try something once. Since now that I am a nice mature, even-keeled, boring soccer mom, I have not had many adventures.
      But I think this is the start of something.....
      And the kids did do great, it was really a pleasant surprise. The only thing one child did wrong was skateboard to church when he was told that he could not go alone and to take his sister. He left without waking anyone. But he went to church. Dang I am glad that my husband is doling our this consequence.

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  3. I've been waiting to see when your post would go up about your trip. I am SO glad you had such a good time. Thanks for telling us about it. That is nice you made your husband so happy and it sounds like you are happy, too. What a bonus your kids acted so responsible and beyond what you thought. Good report and welcome back!

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    1. Thanks SNP. I find it hard, sometimes, to put into words all the emotions and actions that I experience. It was a really good time and my husband was just so happy. Even today he said that it seems like it was a dream. And he thanked me again. Lol.

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  4. AHH! I am SOO JEALOUS!! Haha this is a lot nicer then the nudist beach by my house!! I know what you mean about being the youngest one there - my friends and I were all college students so we were teased for being youngsters! Actually ours is a "family environment" place too and family friendly so some people even had their KIDS THERE! I don't know if I would take my five year old to a nudist beach...but hey...I guess there are worse things you could do to a kid!

    I know what you mean about playing sports - haha I played volleyball a few times and its weird what jiggles when clothing is not involved and also what you protect more when the ball is headed your way!! :D

    I'm glad you had fun! I told ya you would get used to it after ten minutes!! I've already picked out a nudist place that I want to go for my honeymoon or anniversary :)

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    1. JJ- don't be jealous, just go yoursel on your honeymoon, or whenever you want. The ones in CA are pretty nice. The one we went to was awesome. Still not going to play volleyball or tennis though. There were some kids there but the ones we saw were pretty young. I would never take my kids there. First they are too old to be exposed to the nudity and second, it would cut into our alone time. Lol.

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  5. Sounds memorable. I'm glad you guys had such a good time..and happy anniversary :)

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    1. Thanks Stormy! You should join us next time we go. LOL

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  6. Oh I'm glad you enjoyed it and didn't feel uncomfortable all weekend long. What a sweet gift to your husband! You should go back again. You two deserve little breaks after many, many years of parenting. Kind of nice to know that your kids are so responsible too. You must be proud.

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    1. Thanks Susie! I am not too self conscious. I guess if I was, I would try harder to lose the extra weight - LOL. Now that we know our kids can get along without us, we plan on taking a ew more weekends away. My kids never fail to amaze me. They are definately not perfect but in general they make us proud

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  7. It's so nice that you had fun. Happy Anniversary. I know you are very proud of your children. Lovely when they live up to our expectations. :)

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    1. Thanks Zoe! Yes my kids really made us proud. We took them out for dinner as a thank you.

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  8. Welcome back!! I'd been curious as to how your trip went! I'm glad you had fun! I know you were a tad apprehensive about it, but it sounds like you had a great time. Happy Anniversary to you both :)

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    1. Thanks Riley. We did have a wonderful time. My husband is still thinking it was a dream and is already trying to make plans to return. Lol.

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  9. That's so cool you had such a good time! I'd say time alone was WAY overdue, lol! You're a little more adventurous than me, not sure how I'd handle that, I'm cold all the time ;)
    Although we have a spa I go to that's like that--women only though. Welcome back! :-)

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    1. It was actually quite warm there. Summer is definitely here in CA. I seeked out the shade. And the pools were all pretty warm, not like the jacuzzi warm but maybe 85 degrees. No problems with being cold. And it is optional not mandatory to not wear clothes.
      I expect to have you attending with us next time we go. My kids can watch your little one. Betcha J would have fun...

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  10. Wow! I'm impressed you went. A part of me is curious, but a part of me is self-conscious. If I went, I'd probably wear underwear the whole time.

    Happy Anniversary!

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    1. It really isn't as bad as I worried that it might be. I did wear my sarong if and when I felt a little uncomfortable; sometimes just around my waist and sometimes full cover up. My husband thought it was funny to test my submissiveness by telling me to take off my sarong. Grrrrr Never saw any underwear though. And no clothing at all were allowed in the pools. Give a shot. Always try things once. LOL

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  11. Glad you had a good time Blondie and were able to enjoy it :)

    Dee x

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  12. Hi Blondie,
    This is a facinating post. I was really surprised to learn that nudists are older than I would have thought. I would like to go just to see my husband play volleyball and tennis in the nude. Lol.
    You are so lucky to have 5 kids that are responsible; especially, the 3 teenagers.
    Thank you so much for leaving a comment on my guest post at "Sweet Surrender." The internet was down Monday and I broke my phone; so, I didn't know, Kitty, had posted it until Tuesday. I replied to your comment; but, I don't know if you saw it. I would really like for you to do a role play; and, do a post on it.
    Happy Anniversary!

    Kiki

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