Okay, first question, why did we eat pie yesterday?
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Spanking Survey - My Answers
Being that it is March question month, I borrowed this question and answer from Christina's blog and answered the questions below.
SPANKING SURVEY
Have you ever gotten spanked? Yes
Are you spanked bare bottomed, over panties, or over clothes? Bare bottomed, except in a very rare occurrence there may be some kind of clothing being worn.
What is the best thing about being spanked? There is really more than one answer to this questions. If it is a punishment spanking, the best thing about it is that all is forgiven afterwards. Erotic spankings are a turn on for both of us and are enjoyable too.
What position do you get spanked in? The better question is which one don't I get spanked in.... punishment is usually over the knee or leaning over something. Erotic spanking is whatever position he puts me in.
Have you ever gotten spanked in public? Nope
What do you get spanked with the most? His hand is almost always used for warm up and the wood paddle is probably the most used implement
On a scale of 1-10 how much does the average spanking hurt? 8
Have you ever been spanked for something you don't feel you deserve? Never
Have you ever gotten spanked with a hairbrush? Yes and that is really one implement that I hate. That is the main one he uses when we have to go somewhere for a spanking in the van.
Have you ever been spanked so hard that you started to cry? Nope, no yet
Were you spanked as a child? Nope, never. Parents were very against spankings
Do you think spanking is fun? Only when they are used for sexual pleasure
What does the HoH say to you before your spanking? It is never the same thing, he usually tells me why I am being spanked and that he loves me.
Have you ever gotten spanked for bad driving (speeding ticket, etc)? No, unless you count running out of gas as bad driving. One time I ran out of gas which is one of our rules and I did get spanked.
Have you ever gotten a spanking for no reason at all? Sure but not as a punishment
Have you ever gotten spanked by a teacher? Nope
Is your butt spankable? Oh yes, plenty of it to spank
Is spanking your hobby? No, not a hobby but a lifestyle
Are you currently in trouble? Nope but the day is young and my husband is at work
Do you get lectured during the spanking? My husband is not into lecturing, he just tells it like it is and then spanks. He might say something else while switching implements but he is not a lecturer
Have you ever seen someone else get spanked? Only in videos
Have you ever gotten spanked for cursing? It's a rule but not really enforced, so no
Have you ever gotten spanked for lying? Nope, I don't lie to my husband. Our life is not a game, it is not me against him. It's us and there is no place for secrets. Even before dd, that was how it was.
Have you ever gotten spanked by a teacher? Nope
Is your butt spankable? Oh yes, plenty of it to spank
Is spanking your hobby? No, not a hobby but a lifestyle
Are you currently in trouble? Nope but the day is young and my husband is at work
Do you get lectured during the spanking? My husband is not into lecturing, he just tells it like it is and then spanks. He might say something else while switching implements but he is not a lecturer
Have you ever seen someone else get spanked? Only in videos
Have you ever gotten spanked for cursing? It's a rule but not really enforced, so no
Have you ever gotten spanked for lying? Nope, I don't lie to my husband. Our life is not a game, it is not me against him. It's us and there is no place for secrets. Even before dd, that was how it was.
Have you ever been spanked with more than one spanking instrument in one spanking session? That is a big yes. It's not a spanking without at least two implements. Well, he has pulled me aside an given me 5-10 quick swats for an attitude adjustment and that is quick and usually only one thing is used. I don't know if I would call it a spanking as much as attitude swats adjustment.
Do you hate spankings? Honestly, no. Don't like to get in trouble and they really hurt. I don't really like pain but the spankings are not something I hate. If I hated them, we would never have agreed to this lifestyle. Hate is a very strong word. And for some reason, my body responds to his spankings in a very sensual way. Cant explain it.
How many people spank you? Only one
Have you ever gotten spanked with your butt in the air? It is the preferred way. He has to have access to it.
Do you hate spankings? Honestly, no. Don't like to get in trouble and they really hurt. I don't really like pain but the spankings are not something I hate. If I hated them, we would never have agreed to this lifestyle. Hate is a very strong word. And for some reason, my body responds to his spankings in a very sensual way. Cant explain it.
How many people spank you? Only one
Have you ever gotten spanked with your butt in the air? It is the preferred way. He has to have access to it.
Have you ever gotten spanked so hard you butt was purple? Most of the time my butt bruises. The pain goes away but the bruises stay. Bruise easily and using medication for it.
Do you think that spanking is a good punishment? Yes, because it works in our relationship
Do you believe spanking has made your relationship better, or worse? Yes, most definitely. Everything is better. We are still struggling with the typical things like his consistency or what rules are good and those kind of things. But the sense of the clean slate is awesome compared to how it used to be when we held on to our anger, were both trying to always be right, holding grudges and just never dealing with things.
Is your butt red and sore afterwards? Always (kind of a silly question)
Have you ever gotten spanked with a sneaker? Nope
Have you ever been spanked twice in one day? Usually a punishment spanking ends with some kind of erotic spanking too. But I have also been punished twice in one day before too (and not always with the fun stuff afterwards)
Have you ever asked to be spanked for something you did wrong?
Do you believe spanking has made your relationship better, or worse? Yes, most definitely. Everything is better. We are still struggling with the typical things like his consistency or what rules are good and those kind of things. But the sense of the clean slate is awesome compared to how it used to be when we held on to our anger, were both trying to always be right, holding grudges and just never dealing with things.
Is your butt red and sore afterwards? Always (kind of a silly question)
Have you ever gotten spanked with a sneaker? Nope
Have you ever been spanked twice in one day? Usually a punishment spanking ends with some kind of erotic spanking too. But I have also been punished twice in one day before too (and not always with the fun stuff afterwards)
Have you ever asked to be spanked for something you did wrong?
Would you talk about spousal spankings to your friends/family members? NO
Have you ever gotten you butt caned? Nope, I already bruise too easily and my husband would never risk breaking skin on my rear end.
Have you ever gotten you butt caned? Nope, I already bruise too easily and my husband would never risk breaking skin on my rear end.
Have you ever gotten spanked with a wooden spoon? Once but it really didn't hurt at all. None of the kitchen gadgets really have been good for spankings.
What do you get spanked for? Mostly for my attitude, like when I argue or speak to him really disrespectfully which is the main reason dd is part of our lives. I also get spanked for not completing my work for the day or for arguing with the kids. I am also in charge of the calendar and making sure that everyone gets to where they are supposed to be. And scheduling appointments - so been spanked a few times for messing that up.
What do you get spanked for? Mostly for my attitude, like when I argue or speak to him really disrespectfully which is the main reason dd is part of our lives. I also get spanked for not completing my work for the day or for arguing with the kids. I am also in charge of the calendar and making sure that everyone gets to where they are supposed to be. And scheduling appointments - so been spanked a few times for messing that up.
On average, how many times a month are you spanked? Eight to Ten
How many swats do you get for the average offense? Never the same and we never count
Do your friends know that you get spanked? No not really. Have made a friend that gets spanked but we have never met in person.
On a 1-10 scale, how hard would you get spanked for something serious, such as speeding? If I did something serious like that, I am sure that it would be at least and eight maybe all the way to a ten.
Have you ever gotten your butt belted? Yes but it is not something we do regularly, leaves way too many bruises. Plus the belt can turn or not hit where he wants it to hit.
How many swats do you get for the average offense? Never the same and we never count
Do your friends know that you get spanked? No not really. Have made a friend that gets spanked but we have never met in person.
On a 1-10 scale, how hard would you get spanked for something serious, such as speeding? If I did something serious like that, I am sure that it would be at least and eight maybe all the way to a ten.
Have you ever gotten your butt belted? Yes but it is not something we do regularly, leaves way too many bruises. Plus the belt can turn or not hit where he wants it to hit.
Have you ever gotten your butt paddled? That's what we usually use. Thick wooden paddle but my friend, who is trying to get on my husbands good side, is sending him a lexan paddle. I think that the gluten free cookies would have been just fine. But thanks for adding to his collection.
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After your spanking is over, how long before you repeat the same offense? Attitude happens all the time. The rest it takes awhile and the real bad stuff, I hopefully never repeat.
Does your spouse enjoy spanking you? Oh, most definitely. He is a major spanko. Plus with the dd involved, he is able to feel like we have cleared the air and dealt with things.
When is the last time you got spanked? Two days ago
Have you ever spanked yourself? Nope and I don't plan on ever doing it either
What is the worst thing about being spanked? The secrecy and trying to find the privacy to have the spanking. Constantly trying to hide it from our children.
Does anyone aside from your spouse/significant other spank you? I think that I already answered the question above but the answer is no.
How long does the spanking last? I have no real idea. Depends on the spanking. Attitude spankings are over before I even know what happened - just a lot of quick pain. On the other hand, a major punishment can last a good 30 minutes or more with the breaks in between and the different implements and the different positions, like otk or bent over something. And sometimes he might make me sit on a hard chair in between spankings to "think"
Do you get spanked hard? Punishment spankings are always hard
Do you like to be spanked? I think I already answered the question when I answered if I hated being spanked. Being spanked it a lot better than the alternatives we have experience in our marriage.
Would you describe yourself as a rule follower, or a rule breaker?
A rule follower 90 % of the time
Feel free to take the questions and share the answers on your own blog! Thanks Christina - I took you up on your offer.
Now if you, my readers, have any questions to ask me please feel free to write me and I will of course answer you.
Thanks for sharing Blondie! Someone should post this on the network...
ReplyDeleteThat's a lot of questions! I might answer these at some point. Good job. :)
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