Well, well, well...... what have you been doing?

Listen up ladies (and gentlemen), you all thought I was crazy to go to the clothing optional/ nudist resort. I was scared to death of going. But it all started out as a Anniversary surprise for Ty and from there we continued to go. Not a big deal once you try it. All worries of body image fly out the door because there is no judgment. Nobody looks perfect. There are people of all sizes and shapes, every gender, every color, every sexual preference, men, women, skinny, fat, young, and old.

And I had fun. I sat in the shade a lot so I didn't burn my (unable to tan ever) white skin. I read books, its so peaceful and relaxing.  And I don't have to worry about what I am wearing, if it looks right, does it make my butt look fat, is it the right color, because I don't have any clothes on. The resort is just a lot of friendly people that are naked. And after awhile, it's not a bid deal. Well unless, some guy bends over right in your face and you see more than you ever dreamed you would.

So now, I have moved on to a different bit of excitement and challenge and naughtiness and omg's!

And you have to be a little bit open minded. Do better than you did with the nudist resort. I still can't believe you haven't gone to one yet. Don't you trust me......

Ty and I joined FetLife....... and we went to a couple of events. Okay, pick your jaw up off the floor. It's not that earth shattering. Honest.  A challenge is a challenge, and I can never resist a dare (well 99% of the time I can't).
Of course, it doesn't stop there. Part of the reason people join is to go to events, meet others in the community, and, well for me, learn about a lot of different lifestyles.
And the journey continued.......... It has been fun, interesting, confusing. And this adventure has just begun. It's difficult to share details because that is getting into some too personal of stuff to share and I don't need any kind of naughty girl spankings from Ty. Only the fun ones.

But I can tell you that we have been to some informal kind of meet and greets. Talk about nice people. The first time we met in the outside patio of a little restaurant. Ty and I, at first, thought that we were at the wrong place. We were all just a normal looking group of people at a restaurant. There were no signs floating above people's heads saying "I love kink". There were no leashes or leather. Just people because that's what we all are. Just people embracing our kink and meeting others that share the kink fetish.

It's really kind of nice.
It's like our little blog land. Like how we are here, all are into spankings in some sort of way.
We don't judge one another, we just share. We have built friendships, we have learned from others, and we aren't embarrassed with discussing a spanking, or a life event, or a picture, or a meme, or even just a good ol' spanking story. That's how it kind of is there. Hopefully it will stay that nice.

Alright, I will spill a little. Some of it is absolutely amazing, other parts are questionable, and some is actually new and interesting. I have kind of found that some of the real rough play does not look appealing. The cutting looked a little scary. The flogging was beyond words - I have never felt like that before. Ty is definitely learning how to do that, it's too good not to do again. No he didn't do it the first time but someone really experienced did and I am hooked. Lucky for me, Ty loves to try new things, so I have a feeling that he will be a pro at it before too long.











Now to take your minds out of the gutter and thinking about whips and chains, I have a little announcement to make.......