Wednesday, February 13, 2013

A Vanilla Valentines...... Kind of





Oh yes, Valentines Day. Not really my favorite day of the year. Not to say that my husband isn't perfect by any means, but romance is not one of those things he does well.

One year, in the midst of hard times, Ty gave me the very best Valentine gift ever. About 3 or 4 years ago, Ty was unemployed and we were really struggling financially. Believe me, a family cannot survive on unemployment benefits alone. Obviously, there was zero money for any kind of gifts. Yet Ty decided to give me something of himself.

He had been teaching himself, via the internet, how to play the guitar. He was doing pretty good but still a novice.

On Valentines day, he came into our bedroom with his guitar. I was already in bed and getting snuggled in for the night. He sat down next to me and said "Happy Valentines day". Then he started playing his guitar and singing our song:


Wonderful Tonight by Eric Clapton


It's late in the evening
She's wondering what clothes to wear
She puts on her make up
And brushes her long blonde hair
And then she asks me
Do I look alright
And I say yes, you look wonderful tonight

We go to a party
And everyone turns to see
This beautiful lady
That's walking around with me
And then she asks me
Do you feel alright
And I say yes, I feel wonderful tonight

I feel wonderful
Because I see the love light in your eyes
And the wonder of it all
Is that you just don't realize
How much I love you

It's time to go home now
And I've got an aching head
So I give her the car keys
She helps me to bed
And then I tell her
As I turn out the light
I say my darling, you were wonderful tonight
Oh my darling, you were wonderful tonight

 
 
 
  That was the very best Valentines gift I have ever received.  Our marriage was pretty rocky during that time, so looking back, it means even more to me. He has a really nice singing voice and he played the song like a master. I tell him all the time how much I appreciated it but he is so modest and kind of brushes it off. This year, who knows what we will do. I am not to ever buy him cards, he hates cards (waste of money, sorry Hallmark). He asks for the same thing every V-day, birthday, Easter, etc. - a blow job. Maybe this year he might get something different,,,,,,,,,,,, no I don't think so, I doubt it.
 
To all my blogfriends, Hope you have a Spanking Good Valentines Day.

 

 

23 comments:

  1. That is sooooo sweet, I love it! Sounds like he can be romantic ;) A spanking good Valentine's day to you and yours as well. <3

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  2. Awwwww,Happy Valentines Day. Enjoy each other.

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  3. Oh Blondie how lovely. That is a beautiful song and I know you had to feel so special and loved when he sang it. Personal gifts like that mean so much more don't they.

    Wishing you both a lovely and loving Valentine's Day, Evening and Night. ;)

    Blessings,
    Cat

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  4. teehee! Happy Valentine's Day Blondie! :D

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  5. So true, that was a beautiful gift.
    I don't think anything like that would work for me though...
    I'm a drummer! lol
    Happy Valentines Day Ty & Blondie!

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  6. Oh that's so cute and lovely

    The best presents are the ones that come from the heart.

    Hope you have a nice day x

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  7. Very sweet :) and I've also used one of these pics, great minds think alike lol

    Dee x

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  8. Wonderful Tonight is our song too! We danced to it at our wedding. Bucko asked for the same Valentine's gift. I love it! Happy Valentine's Day Blondie.

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  9. That was a truly lovely gift. That's one of my favourite songs.

    Happy Valentine's Day to you both. Have a wonderful day.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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  10. And that thoroughly romantic man is the same man that crafts all those paddles that Blogland has learned to admire and to fear?
    I'd say, keep him happy and give him the gift he desires.
    Happy Valentine's Day.

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  11. Hi Blondie, how lovely and romantic of him. A wonderful gift from the heart.

    Wishing you both a very Happy Valentines Day.

    Hugs,
    Roz

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  12. Blondie,
    That song was perfect. We're pretty low key on Valentine's Day too.

    PK

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  13. These men all want the same thing. LOL. Have fun Blondie!

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  14. Great Post. Happy Valentine's Day to you and Ty. Hope it's all it can be.

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  15. Awww. That is so sweet!fireman plays also and I love it :)

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  16. That is so sweet and quite romantic actually! Happy Valentine's Day to you both! :)

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  17. So so sweet. Happy Valentine's Day!

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  18. The best gifts are from the heart. I received my gift today too, a healing husband!

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  19. What a beautiful gesture of love! Happy Valentine's Day to you both!

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  20. that sounds beautifully romantic. :-) I am and always will be a romantic at heart. Though my husband is not usually romantic and I have learned to be ok with that, too...I don't need flowers or gifts, but his words, his time, and his embrace mean the world to me...a heart felt gift like the song you received would make me positively swoon. :-) My gift from my husband will be him coming home from his business trip... Hugs, Terps

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